英语美文 7 Steps Toward Love
<p><span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="ruled">ruled</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="fear">fear</span>? <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="attitudes">attitudes</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="shape">shape</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="ways">ways</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="psychoanalyst">psychoanalyst</span> <span word="John">John</span> <span word="McMurray">McMurray</span> <span word="describes">describes</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="difference">difference</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="this">this</span>:</p><p>"<span word="The">The</span> <span word="fear">fear</span>-<span word="determined">determined</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="sun">sun</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="putting">putting</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sun">sun</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="love">love</span>-<span word="determined">determined</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="abundant">abundant</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="alive">alive</span>, <span word="of">of</span> <span word="whom">whom</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="possess">possess</span> <span word="eternal">eternal</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="within">within</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="perpetually">perpetually</span>."</p><p><span word="Life">Life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="beautiful">beautiful</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="vivid">vivid</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="determined">determined</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="fear">fear</span>. <span word="I">I</span>&<span word="rsquo">rsquo</span>;<span word="m">m</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="imagine">imagine</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="determined">determined</span> <span word="completely">completely</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="saint">saint</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="contrast">contrast</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="ordinary">ordinary</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="beings">beings</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="determined">determined</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="forces">forces</span>, <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fear">fear</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="tiny">tiny</span> <span word="shift">shift</span> <span word="towards">towards</span> <span word="love">love</span>&<span word="mdash">mdash</span>;<span word="and">and</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="fear">fear</span>&<span word="mdash">mdash</span>;<span word="can">can</span> <span word="bring">bring</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="Happiness">Happiness</span>.</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> 7 <span word="tips">tips</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="towards">towards</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="fear">fear</span>.</p><p>1. <span word="Cultivate">Cultivate</span> <span word="gratitude">gratitude</span></p><p><span word="Gratitude">Gratitude</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="happier">happier</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="grateful">grateful</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="blessings">blessings</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="connected">connected</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="niggles">niggles</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="embrace">embrace</span> <span word="gratitude">gratitude</span> <span word="instead">instead</span>, <span word="love">love</span> <span word="springs">springs</span> <span word="up">up</span>.</p><p>2. <span word="Reality">Reality</span>-<span word="test">test</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="fear">fear</span></p><p><span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="cloud">cloud</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="keeps">keeps</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sunlight">sunlight</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="feels">feels</span> <span word="huge">huge</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="oppressive">oppressive</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="deal">deal</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="reality">reality</span>. <span word="Write">Write</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>, &<span word="ldquo">ldquo</span>;<span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="grounded">grounded</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="reality">reality</span>? <span word="I">I</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="this">this</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="fears">fears</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="unfounded">unfounded</span>. <span word="It">It</span>&<span word="rsquo">rsquo</span>;<span word="s">s</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shadow">shadow</span>-<span word="land">land</span>, <span word="peering">peering</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="future">future</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="expecting">expecting</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="happen">happen</span>.</p>
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