眼睛会说话
<p><span word="Much">Much</span> <span word="meaning">meaning</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="conveyed">conveyed</span>, <span word="clearly">clearly</span>, <span word="with">with</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="speak">speak</span>.</p><p><span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>? <span word="In">In</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bus">bus</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="stranger">stranger</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="long">long</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="sensing">sensing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="stared">stared</span> <span word="at">at</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="uncomfortable">uncomfortable</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="daily">daily</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="looked">looked</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="necessary">necessary</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="down">down</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="angry">angry</span> <span word="toward">toward</span> <span word="other">other</span>&<span word="rsquo">rsquo</span>;<span word="s">s</span> <span word="stare">stare</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="way">way</span>. <span word="Eyes">Eyes</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="speak">speak</span>, <span word="right">right</span>?</p><p><span word="Looking">Looking</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="rude">rude</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="aggressive">aggressive</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stare">stare</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="sex">sex</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="glances">glances</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> 10 <span word="seconds">seconds</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="refuses">refuses</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avert">avert</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="gaze">gaze</span>, <span word="his">his</span> <span word="intentions">intentions</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="obvious">obvious</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="wishes">wishes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="attract">attract</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="attention">attention</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="admiring">admiring</span> <span word="her">her</span>.</p><p><span word="However">However</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="normal">normal</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="engaged">engaged</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="speaker">speaker</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="listener">listener</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="listener">listener</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="pay">pay</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="former">former</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="attentive">attentive</span>.</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="speaker">speaker</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="continuously">continuously</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="tries">tries</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="dominate">dominate</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="disconcerted">disconcerted</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="poor">poor</span> <span word="liar">liar</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="exposes">exposes</span> <span word="himself">himself</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="victim">victim</span>, <span word="since">since</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="believes">believes</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="false">false</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="straight">straight</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="honest">honest</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>. <span word="Quite">Quite</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="contrary">contrary</span>.</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="continuous">continuous</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="confined">confined</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lovers">lovers</span> <span word="only">only</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="enjoy">enjoy</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="tenderly">tenderly</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="affection">affection</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="cannot">cannot</span> <span word="express">express</span>.</p>
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