做“失败”的朋友
<p><span word="Believe">Believe</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="separate">separate</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="failures">failures</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="failures">failures</span>. <span word="Good">Good</span> <span word="failures">failures</span> <span word="happen">happen</span> <span word="when">when</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="though">though</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="correct">correct</span> <span word="decision">decision</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="lost">lost</span>. <span word="Bad">Bad</span> <span word="failures">failures</span> <span word="happen">happen</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="worse">worse</span>, <span word="didn">didn</span>&<span word="rsquo">rsquo</span>;<span word="t">t</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="decision">decision</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="all">all</span>. <span word="Although">Although</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="completely">completely</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="long">long</span>-<span word="term">term</span> <span word="impact">impact</span>.</p><p><span word="I">I</span>&<span word="rsquo">rsquo</span>;<span word="m">m</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="novice">novice</span> <span word="poker">poker</span> <span word="player">player</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="wins">wins</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="wins">wins</span>. <span word="Good">Good</span> <span word="wins">wins</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sound">sound</span> <span word="strategy">strategy</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="betting">betting</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="odds">odds</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="favor">favor</span>. <span word="Bad">Bad</span> <span word="wins">wins</span> <span word="happened">happened</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="lucky">lucky</span>. <span word="Going">Going</span> <span word="all">all</span>-<span word="in">in</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> 2-7 <span word="off">off</span>-<span word="suit">suit</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="win">win</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hand">hand</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>&<span word="rsquo">rsquo</span>;<span word="t">t</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="you">you</span>&<span word="rsquo">rsquo</span>;<span word="re">re</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="poker">poker</span> <span word="player">player</span>.</p><p><span word="Good">Good</span> <span word="Failures">Failures</span></p><p><span word="Mentally">Mentally</span> <span word="separating">separating</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="failures">failures</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="failures">failures</span> <span word="takes">takes</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="Poker">Poker</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="game">game</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="laws">laws</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="probability">probability</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="cleanly">cleanly</span> <span word="defined">defined</span>. <span word="Real">Real</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="messier">messier</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="takes">takes</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="effort">effort</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="decide">decide</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="failures">failures</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="decision">decision</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="unintended">unintended</span> <span word="side">side</span>-<span word="effects">effects</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="choice">choice</span> <span word="available">available</span>.</p><p><span word="Although">Although</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="separate">separate</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="benefits">benefits</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="piles">piles</span> <span word="instead">instead</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="one">one</span>. <span word="By">By</span> <span word="separating">separating</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="types">types</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="failures">failures</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="easier">easier</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="persevere">persevere</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="failures">failures</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="Business">Business</span> <span word="proposal">proposal</span> <span word="shut">shut</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fifteenth">fifteenth</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>&<span word="rsquo">rsquo</span>;<span word="t">t</span> <span word="necessarily">necessarily</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="failure">failure</span>.</p><p><span word="By">By</span> <span word="separating">separating</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="failures">failures</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="fail">fail</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="laziness">laziness</span>, <span word="indecision">indecision</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="poor">poor</span> <span word="planning">planning</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span> <span word="correct">correct</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="future">future</span>. <span word="Knowing">Knowing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="difference">difference</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="failures">failures</span> <span word="keeps">keeps</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="repeating">repeating</span> <span word="stupid">stupid</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span>.</p>
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