Some thoughts on building a successful marriage
<p><span word="From">From</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="perspective">perspective</span>, <span word="once">once</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="enter">enter</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="realm">realm</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>, <span word="building">building</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="maintaining">maintaining</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="financial">financial</span> <span word="success">success</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="solid">solid</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="results">results</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="sharing">sharing</span> <span word="resources">resources</span> <span word="together">together</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="provides">provides</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="support">support</span>, <span word="cheerleading">cheerleading</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="encouragement">encouragement</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="succeed">succeed</span>.</p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="follows">follows</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="twelve">twelve</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="quite">quite</span> <span word="regularly">regularly</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>. <span word="Please">Please</span>, <span word="use">use</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="reasonable">reasonable</span>.</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="day">day</span>.<span word="I">I</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="morning">morning</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="leaves">leaves</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bedroom">bedroom</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="weekdays">weekdays</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="evening">evening</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="usuallycouple">usuallycouple</span>（加倍，成双）<span word="it">it</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="kiss">kiss</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="simple">simple</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="constant">constant</span> <span word="reminder">reminder</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fact">fact</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="her">her</span>, <span word="no">no</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="what">what</span>.</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="day">day</span>, <span word="listen">listen</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="follow">follow</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>.<span word="I">I</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="tabs">tabs</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="vent">vent</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="situation">situation</span>. <span word="Everyone">Everyone</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> - <span word="I">I</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span>.</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="surprise">surprise</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="regular">regular</span> <span word="basis">basis</span>.<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="hour">hour</span> <span word="preparing">preparing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="excellent">excellent</span> <span word="supper">supper</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="spontaneously">spontaneously</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kids">kids</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bath">bath</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="she">she</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="couch">couch</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="blanket">blanket</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="turn">turn</span>. <span word="Doing">Doing</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="unexpected">unexpected</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="care">care</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="compels">compels</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="similar">similar</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="me">me</span>.</p>
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