I love you and I hate you
<p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="are">are</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="fellow">fellow</span> <span word="humans">humans</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="accept">accept</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="strong">strong</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="weak">weak</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="itthe">itthe</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="around">around</span>（从相反方向，倒过来）?</p><p><span word="All">All</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="capable">capable</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="loving">loving</span>.</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="born">born</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> - <span word="I">I</span> <span word="shall">shall</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="loved">loved</span>.</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="do">do</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="all">all</span>-<span word="wrong">wrong</span>.</p><p><span word="Until">Until</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="mirror">mirror</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="reflection">reflection</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="yours">yours</span>.</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="marry">marry</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="tend">tend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lose">lose</span> <span word="whom">whom</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="were">were</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shell">shell</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="eventually">eventually</span> <span word="crack">crack</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="soon">soon</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="divorcestatistic">divorcestatistic</span>（统计数值）.</p><p><span word="Marriage">Marriage</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="commitment">commitment</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="identity">identity</span>. <span word="Because">Because</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="You">You</span> <span word="But">But</span> <span word="Hate">Hate</span> <span word="You">You</span>.</p><p><span word="Kahlil">Kahlil</span> <span word="Gibran">Gibran</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="ago">ago</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Prophet">Prophet</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="Marriage">Marriage</span>:</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="one">one</span>. <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="half">half</span> - <span word="what">what</span>? <span word="And">And</span> <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="throw">throw</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="humor">humor</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="half">half</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="cute">cute</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="setting">setting</span> <span word="yourselves">yourselves</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="fail">fail</span>? <span word="I">I</span> <span word="guess">guess</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="depends">depends</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="independent">independent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="wereprior">wereprior</span> <span word="to">to</span>（之前，居先）<span word="becoming">becoming</span> <span word="one">one</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="losing">losing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="independence">independence</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="issue">issue</span>.</p>
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