Loving with an Open Hand
<p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="talked">talked</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="recalled">recalled</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="story">story</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="heard">heard</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="summer">summer</span>. "<span word="Acompassionate">Acompassionate</span>（慈悲的）<span word="person">person</span>, <span word="seeing">seeing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="butterfly">butterfly</span> <span word="struggling">struggling</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="itself">itself</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="itscocoon">itscocoon</span>（茧）, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="wanting">wanting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span>, <span word="very">very</span> <span word="gently">gently</span> <span word="loosened">loosened</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="filaments">filaments</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="opening">opening</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="butterfly">butterfly</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="freed">freed</span>, <span word="emerged">emerged</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="cocoon">cocoon</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fluttered">fluttered</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="fly">fly</span>. <span word="What">What</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="compassionate">compassionate</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="birth">birth</span> <span word="struggle">struggle</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wings">wings</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="flight">flight</span>. <span word="Its">Its</span> <span word="shortened">shortened</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ground">ground</span>; <span word="it">it</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="knew">knew</span> <span word="freedom">freedom</span>, <span word="never">never</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="lived">lived</span>."</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="hand">hand</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="slowly">slowly</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="wrought">wrought</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fires">fires</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="pain">pain</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="waters">waters</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="patience">patience</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="love">love</span>, <span word="for">for</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="Iclutch">Iclutch</span>（抓住）<span word="or">or</span> <span word="cling">cling</span>, <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="control">control</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="lose">lose</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hold">hold</span>.</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="rob">rob</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="precious">precious</span> <span word="right">right</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="one">one</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span>. <span word="Whenever">Whenever</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="impose">impose</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="exert">exert</span> <span word="power">power</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="another">another</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="rob">rob</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="full">full</span> <span word="realization">realization</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="growth">growth</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="maturation">maturation</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="limit">limit</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="prevent">prevent</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="act">act</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="possession">possession</span>, <span word="no">no</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="intention">intention</span>.</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="limit">limit</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="injure">injure</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kindest">kindest</span> <span word="acts">acts</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="protection">protection</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="concern">concern</span>. <span word="Over">Over</span> <span word="extended">extended</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="eloquently">eloquently</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="words">words</span>, "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="unable">unable</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>; <span word="I">I</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="mine">mine</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="responsible">responsible</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>."</p>
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